The flower girl(s) is known for being one of the most adorable elements of the entire processional, and makes her(s) debut right before the bride. Having a flower girl is not mandatory; however, it is a great way to make your favorite little cutie feel special. Flower girls are usually members of the Bride or Groom’s extended family, but may also be daughters of close friends too.
The flower girl walks down the aisle tossing petals before the bride. Her dress resembles that of the bride, and will be similar in color to the bridesmaids. Here is a description of her role and some tips to help make her job laid-back and stress-free:
- The adorable little girl that you choose to be your flower girl is usually aged between three and eight. She follows the ring bearer and traditionally holds a wicker basket full of petals. It is not uncommon now for her to hold a smaller bouquet, candies or confetti.
- I love the idea of having two flower girls so that they can progress together, side by side. Accompanying one another will give them additional self-assurance and allow them to have fun together.
- If possible, arrange to have the flower girl attend the bridal shower so they will identify faces prior to the wedding. Seeing friendly, familiar faces on the big day will help to comfort any nervousness.
- It is vital to inform the flower girl(s) in advance of the importance of her role. The parents should follow up with multiple rehearsals.
- Seat the flower girl’s parents toward the front of the ceremony so she can focus on them and be encouraged by their smiles of encouragement. The very young flower girl should sit with her parents after she walks. If your ceremony is short your flower girl(s) may stand with the bridal party at the altar.
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