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The Garter Toss

The tossing of a bride’s wedding garter has become a feature of many wedding reception celebrations, and originates back to the 14th Century.  Around Europe it was believed that having a piece of the bride’s clothing was thought to bring good luck.

Garters are articles of clothing made from heavy cloth or ribbon. In the olden days the garter was worn just below the knee, where the leg is most slender, to prevent a woman’s stocking from sliding. Nowadays they are worn above the knee for fashion.

Historically the garter represents purity of the bride.  The groom would remove the garter as a symbol that he now had the right to his bride’s virginity.  Today a garter represents one of the most intimate pieces of apparel that the bride can reserve for her groom.

These days the bride wears two garters, one for her keepsake and the other to be thrown at the ceremony.  Before the throw of the garter the bride first throws her bouquet to her single female guests.  Then the groom seats his bride on a chair in the middle of the dance floor and removes the garter from the bride’s leg, sometimes he does it with his teeth, but it’s more appropriately done with his hands.

After the garter has been removed, the groom throws it to his single male guests.  According to superstition, the male who catches the garter and the female who catches the bouquet are next to be married in the next 12 months.

The keepsake garter is saved for only the groom to see on their wedding night!

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Photo Credit: Pinterest

Heather,

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Spring 2014 Color Palette

Color news! Pantone have recently revealed their spring 2014 color report and I cannot wait to see what types of trends this brings to the wedding industry!  Designers have combined soft pastels with brights to generate a vibrant equilibrium!

Spring marks the start of our very busy wedding season so keep an eye out for our go-to spring color palette!

“This season, consumers are looking for a state of thoughtful, emotional and artistic equilibrium,” said Leatrice Eiseman, executive director of the Pantone Color Institute®. “While this need for stability is reflected in the composition of the palette, the inherent versatility of the individual colors allows for experimentation with new looks and color combinations.”

For over 20 years, Pantone have examined the designers of New York Fashion Week to bring you the season’s most central color trends.

Keep your eyes open for these beauties this season!

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Photo Credit: Pantone.com

Heather,

Xo

The Role of the Ring Bearer

Ring bearers may be the most sweetest and charming, aww-inducing part of the processional, yet it’s not to be forgotten their huge responsibility! Right before the bride walks down the aisle, the ring bearer(s) will make their debut.  A ring bearer is usually a boy aged 4-8 years old and can be from either side of the bride or grooms family.

The ring bearer is one of the last to walk down the aisle, and will carry the rings (usually tied to a pillow or box).  Some couples choose not to give the ring bearer the real rings as at 6 years-old they tend to be a little boisterous and rough, so usually the rings are fake.  However, if you do choose to let your little rascal hold the actual rings, make sure you give them to him right before his unveiling to prevent him from losing them.

Whoever you chose for your special day, make sure you include your ring bearer at your rehearsal so he gets plenty of practice beforehand.

What they wear

Here are an assortment of styles for these cute little dudes:

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Heather,

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Wedding Favors!

Choosing the right wedding favor is almost as important as choosing the precise color scheme, or finding the perfect dress. Wedding favors play an significant role because the wedding favor is the one part of the wedding which your guests will take home as a reminder of your wedding.

In our generation is it recommended that you send your guests home with a gift in the form of a wedding favor. This will show a small token of appreciation to your guests for attending the wedding.

Nowadays there is a whole range of wedding favor styles and ideas to choose from. Here are some of my favorites!

1. French Macaroons

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2. Honey Jars – Its meant to bee!

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3. Tequila Toast!

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4. Jelly Beans – Thanks for bean here with us!

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5. Champagne Celebration!

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6. Chapstick – Mint to be!

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Heather,

Xo

Congratulations! You are engaged? So when is the date?!

This is a difficult decision for any couple; however, usually a year-long engagement is just about right.  This will give you plenty of time to envision the breathtaking dress, the whimsical venue (some are booked six to twelve months in advance) and select the number of guests to attend!

When selecting a date it is crucial to consider the following:

Budget

May through September are generally the most popular months for weddings which means these venues are booked faster, and tend to be more expensive around these months!

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Season

  • If you are having an outdoors wedding or a vacation wedding, weather plays a huge role when determining your    special date.
  • The seasons can play a huge role when selecting the theme and color scheme of your wedding.

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Holidays

  • Holidays are a busy time of the year for everyone! The majority of venues host more than just weddings, so they’ll book up for holiday parties as well.
  • You may choose to have your wedding during a holiday weekend, such as Memorial Day, as you and your family will have additional time off work to travel and celebrate with you.

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Dates to Avoid

  • Milestone birthdays/anniversary’s  in the family (parents 50th wedding anniversary)
  • Mother’s Day/Father’s Day
  • Ask your bridesmaids – are they in another wedding?
  • Thanksgiving
  • New Year’s Eve
  • Christmas Day
  • Friday the 13th (for those of you who are superstitious!)

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Heather

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